Ephesians 6:1–4 — “Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise;) That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth. And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.”
Gratitude is not limited to the church; it begins in the home. Paul calls children to obey and honor their parents and fathers to nurture their children in the Lord. Gratitude in the family is foundational for gratitude in life.
Honoring parents is an expression of thankfulness. It recognizes their role, sacrifices, and care. Obedience rooted in gratitude brings blessing, both to the child and the home. Ingratitude toward parents breeds rebellion and dishonor.
Fathers are also called to cultivate gratitude by nurturing rather than provoking. A thankful heart grows in an atmosphere of love, patience, and biblical instruction. Gratitude is taught by example as much as by command.
For pastors, gratitude in the family is vital. Their ministry begins at home, modeling thankfulness to their children. For the flock, gratitude for family is a daily opportunity to practice God’s design.
Gratitude in the family also strengthens the church. Families who thank God for one another, who honor, encourage, and nurture, build strong congregations. Gratitude multiplies when it begins at the dinner table and extends to the pew.
Let us thank God for our families today. Whether parents, children, or spiritual family, gratitude for those closest to us glorifies God and strengthens His design.