In a world that often prizes self-promotion over self-sacrifice, Jonathan stands as a rare and radiant example of loyal friendship. The son of King Saul and heir to the throne, Jonathan could have viewed David as a threat. Instead, he saw David as God’s chosen one—and he chose loyalty over ambition. 1 Samuel 18:1 tells us, “The soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.”
Jonathan risked his own position and safety to protect David. He defended him before his father, warned him of danger, and made a covenant of friendship that would outlast his own life. His selflessness wasn’t weakness—it was strength. His loyalty wasn’t blind—it was guided by faith in God's plan.
Jonathan teaches us that true friendship isn't about mutual benefit—it's about mutual sacrifice. It's standing by someone when it's costly, and celebrating their success even when it comes at your own expense. That kind of faithfulness reflects the heart of Christ, who called His disciples “friends” and laid down His life for them.
In your friendships, be a Jonathan. Be faithful, truthful, and loyal. Encourage others in their calling. Cheer them on when they’re running their race. And know that even if no one else sees your faithfulness—God does, and He delights in it.