2 Timothy 1:16 — “The Lord give mercy unto the house of Onesiphorus; for he oft refreshed me, and was not ashamed of my chain.”
Paul, imprisoned and burdened, found encouragement in a faithful friend. Onesiphorus refreshed him often and was not ashamed of his chains. This small act of faithfulness had a profound impact on the great apostle. It reminds us that pastors, too, need refreshment and encouragement.
Pastors carry heavy loads—sermon preparation, counseling, prayer, leadership, and the daily care of souls. They often labor unseen, bearing burdens silently. Like Paul, they are strengthened when members of the flock come alongside to refresh them.
Encouragement can take many forms: a kind word, a note of gratitude, a prayer offered, a meal shared, or simply faithful presence in worship. What seems small to us may be great to a weary pastor. Words of life are like cold water to a thirsty soul.
Refreshing the shepherd also means refusing to be ashamed of his struggles. Pastors are not superhuman; they face discouragement, doubt, and spiritual warfare. A flock that acknowledges their humanity and supports them with grace gives life to their ministry.
For pastors, this truth is humbling. They must be willing to receive encouragement, not isolate themselves in pride. Refreshment is part of God’s design for sustaining them.
The church that encourages its pastor strengthens the entire body. A refreshed shepherd serves with renewed zeal, and the flock flourishes under his care.