1 Thessalonians 2:7–8 — “But we were gentle among you, even as a nurse cherisheth her children: So being affectionately desirous of you, we were willing to have imparted unto you, not the gospel of God only, but also our own souls, because ye were dear unto us.”
Paul’s ministry was not cold professionalism but warm, sacrificial love. He describes his care for the Thessalonians as a mother cherishing her children, marked by gentleness, affection, and deep desire for their good. This is the heart of a true shepherd: not merely delivering sermons but giving his very life for his people.
Gentleness is often overlooked in leadership, yet Paul elevates it as central to pastoral care. Harshness may coerce outward compliance, but gentleness wins hearts. Like a nurse tenderly caring for infants, pastors must handle their people with patience, sensitivity, and compassion.
Paul’s affection was not shallow. He longed for his people, counted them dear, and was willing to sacrifice for them. He gave not only the gospel but also himself. Pastoral ministry is costly because it requires pouring out one’s time, energy, and heart into others.
For the church, this passage calls us to recognize the depth of our pastor’s investment. He is not simply performing duties; he is giving his life. We should receive his ministry with gratitude and reciprocate his love with encouragement and support.
Paul’s example also challenges pastors today. Ministry is not about status or authority but about sacrificial love. The gospel cannot be separated from a life lived in devotion to those it serves. Pastors are most powerful not when they stand above their people but when they walk among them.
On this Lord’s Day, let us thank God for shepherds who reflect Paul’s heart. Let us pray for them to remain gentle, affectionate, and sacrificial. And let us recommit ourselves to walking together in love, for the glory of Christ and the health of His church.